When I went away to college I spoke to my parents every Sunday night. We did it whether or not we always felt in the mood to speak – it was the connecting once a week no matter what that seemed important. This led to strained conversations some weeks, but that’s life in family, right? Though I can barely remember that these days once existed – email was just kind of introduced during this time on college campuses, and even though my parents had a home computer, the internet in all it’s vast reaching capabilities was still a couple years away. (jeez, how old AM I?) So the phone call was the only and obvious choice for staying connected to my parents from across the country. Maybe we wrote a few letters too? I can’t remember.
When I moved home the summer that my dad died we shifted this weekly phone call to a weekly meal. Even though I was living at home at the time and we ate a lot of dinners together – we always ate Sunday dinner together. After my dad died my mom and I kept up this tradition. My sister and her family joined us when they could, but they weren’t always able, so as a result a lot of those Sunday nights were just mom and me.
Some of our best talks, and worst fights took place on Sunday nights. It’s probably when I really got to know my mom as a person. The meals were never fancy, but without fail they included a green salad with mom’s favorite dressing (it should be yours too – it’s insanely good) and a scoop of chocolate frozen yogurt.
My sister and I have adopted a semi-regular Sunday night dinner tradition of our own (not weekly, but we try for bi weekly or at least once-a-monthly!) Some Sundays I’ll go to her place and hang out with Emmett while Megan cooks. This often involves racing cars until they crash over and over again and sometimes it involves hiding in his room from bad guys. Other Sundays they’ll come over and we’ll hang out in the living room or Emmett will watch a show while Megan and I catch up while I cook. **These nights used to always include a dance party interlude too…time to bring it back!**
Last night Megan and I had our own Sunday night dinner and it was my turn to host/cook.
Our meal included a little bit of this
That was included in this baby
And of course a green salad dressed perfectly with mom’s favorite dressing
Every time I use it I think of my mom and for that reason alone it’s worth using. But seriously, you should buy this stuff. It’s that good. And then you could think of me, or your own mom…or whatever – just buy it and taste it and have your taste buds change forever.
you’re welcome.
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