As some (many?) of you know the condo I live in was my mom’s. My sister and I inherited it after she died and then a couple years ago I bought my sister’s half and moved in. I was moving from a small one bedroom apartment into a large 3 bedroom condo. The furniture I had to bring with me was all Ikea or found in my alley. So I didn’t bring much of it at all. I was moving into a fully furnished condo so there was little need for my crappy stuff. My sister and I divided up as much furniture/art/odds-and-ends as we could at the time and I began living with what was left.
As fortunate as I was to be moving into a fully furnished apartment (and a beautiful one at that), it is strange to move into your mother’s fully furnished apartment. It’s her stuff and it’s hard for me to get past that sometimes. To get the place where this place feels like mine and the stuff around me is my stuff is a major goal. So, slowly, very very slowly I’ve started to replace her stuff with new stuff of my own.
This weekend I found a couple of things that are so small you may wonder if it makes that big of a difference. Let me just say that when you are trying to make a place your own these things add up.
**Don’t get me wrong – there are some things of my mom’s that I could never part with. That remind me of her and I want to keep close. These are not those things.**
I use a butter dish. Do you? I use a butter dish and keep my butter out on the counter and never in the fridge. I use a little butter every day on my morning toast so it gets used up pretty quickly. But this is what I’ve been using for the past 2-3 years:
It isn’t cute – It isn’t! don’t lie. Or if you do like it let me know and I’ll give it to you! But don’t be jealous when you see where my butter will be living from now on:
My whole kitchen just got happier.
And then there were these. They’re fine – it’s true. But they are thick and kinda heavy for little bowls
Maybe I should keep the matching ones for chips and salsa? Or you could – just let me know I’ll wrap them up like a present and mail them to you! because now I have these
They’re cute! They’re simple! I can hold them in one hand! But I won’t b/c I don’t want to break my new bowls, yo.
I realize that this may seem silly to you especially if you weren’t aware of my angsty existence in my home. But these little things – they feel like me. and that is a good, good thing.
Go get you some!
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